Online Dating Sucks

Online dating has become popular way to make relationship but this thing hasn’t been working for me. I’ve been trying online dating thing for more than eight years. But first I was younger and immature so I had no idea that how to deal with women.

Women are really complicated natures. They’d never tell you in simple words what they want actually. That’s why they made Hollywood movie What Women Want. Another example is first scenes from romantic film Going The Distance.

Long distance relationship thing never worked for me. In a week I’ll be 27 years old but still I’m never been kissed and never been touched. I never had a relationship. That’s why I feel so empty and incomplete.

Because of society values and boundaries I can’t try dating locally because women and men aren’t allowed to talk with each other without an official relationship like wedding or they are family members. Above 90% marriages are arrange ones in urban society and its 100% arrange marriages in ruler areas.

Things are worst for relationship thing and online date isn’t going to help because it didn’t before. Wish me luck, guys.


41 thoughts on “Online Dating Sucks”

  1. Let me say just one thing: you are complete. No one or thing can make you what you already are. The key to happiness in relationships is to be happy with yourself and life BEFORE you find someone. To rely on another for joy in life is tiring and can frankly get very disappointing. You are right when you say women don’t tell men what they want. We just kinda hope you understand what we want from you! But I’m getting better at telling my husband exactly what I want. He’s not a mind reader, right? It’s not romantic, but life isn’t a Hollywood romantic comedy!

    1. thank you very much, Deliciousmother 🙂 yeah I know I’m complete, thanks to God but you know still we need few more things to make life happier, more joyful, more interesting and more awesome.

  2. I wish you the best, Nafees! I’ve tried online dating before (and I still do). While in my case it’s not the same (I’m gay), in some ways it is very similar. You can read good things about a person online but it can turn into false advertising at times. So, yes, online dating sucks whether you’re straight or gay. However, you’re still young, man! Don’t lose hope. You have lots of years ahead of you. Never give up!

  3. Nafees I also add that you should not give up and yes 27 is very young. Age does not matter and there will be the one out there for you one day! I guess dating is lot easier in the Western World, I have done online dating and got to know men through that, you know men are not that easy to understand either. With an open mind and honesty you can conquer this. Well almost. So live your live happy and one day when you do not think of it it will happen. Best of luck Nafess.

  4. I’ve found that for me, when I wasn’t looking, that’s when the right person came along. I wasn’t looking or even wanting a relationship when I met my boyfriend, but I realized he was in my life for a reason and I now know why. 🙂 Best of luck to you! I’m sure that you will find someone when you least expect it 🙂

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