I’m not well researched and acknowledged about benefits and usefulness of a relationship and family thing but I truly appreciate these things because unshared and unconditional love is all we need.
Years ago I read that family persons live longer and stay healthier than lonely and single persons. You know that depression is one of top five diseases of the world. It is my personal experience that meeting your beloved person kills your depression.
We all need someone to share our unconditional and unshared love. We need someone to share our happiness and our sorrows. We all need someone to hug where there’s no one around to take care of us and protect us. Always date for love until you find it.
Even some times we can’t share our matters with our blood related relatives like parents, bothers and sisters etc. But we share them with our best friends. Same like that some matters even we can’t share with our fast friends because still we feel formal with them.
We can share our hearts with only our life partners and soulmates because they are someone those who live closest to us. Our partners are who share your love, your bed, your room, your house and everything else which you can’t or don’t wanna share with someone else. There are many things which you don’t share with your parents and children but you never have problem sharing them with your partners. Every family member has a worth so is partner.
I never had a relationship so I don’t have a personal experience but I can understand that how much a relationship is necessary for a human being. Not only for birth of children but for protection and safety of our souls and hearts. You can buy sex but you can’t buy unconditional and unshared love anywhere. That’s what only you can get from your soulmate and true life partner.
I know worth of a true relationship and a family. In this materialist world it is really hard to find unshared and unconditional love is so if you find then never let it go. I lost my mom when I was two and half years old. I never felt her absence in my whole life but when I grew enough especially after age of 25 I really have been missing her because I couldn’t find love. That space is empty and incomplete. A woman did that so only a woman can fill it. Just a woman can replace a woman.